Engineering Manager Coaching · 1:1 · By application

Build the team engineers deserve. Be the EM your org trusts.

The outcomes most engineering managers stumble into by luck or by decade, taught here, 1:1, on your real team.

Be the manager leadership bets on

6 weeks · weekly 60-min live + self-paced By application Remote, worldwide
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The Program

A 1:1 coaching program that changes how you see the job.

A coach who's done it. A fieldbook you apply to your real team. And a method that makes the invisible parts of the job visible. 60-min live + self-paced work, for 6 weeks. No lectures, no "community," no templates-as-substitute-for-thinking.

  • Duration6 weeks · 60-min live + self-paced
  • EntryBy application
The altitude shift

Engineering and engineering management are different jobs that share a vocabulary.

Most EMs were promoted for being the person the team leaned on. That's how you got here, and the instinct still earns its keep. The shape of the job, though, has changed.

At the next altitude, you stop being the single point of good judgement and start building the team that produces it without you. People development moves from a 1:1 hygiene task to the real work. Delivery stops running through your shoulders. And the invisible operating system you've been holding together by hand becomes something you can actually see, name and design.

The 3 Guarantees are your map to that altitude. Three concrete outcomes your team, your stakeholders, and your own manager all quietly grade you on - and the three dimensions of a job most EMs run for years without ever seeing the whole shape of.

Five sentences every EM has said

Every EM carries one of these. The conscious ones outgrow it with intent.

These quiet thoughts run management in stealth. Naming yours is the easiest win you'll have all year. Outgrowing it on purpose is what the program is for.

pick a confession to read it.

Pattern 01

“I went from being the best in the room to not knowing what my job even is. Nobody prepared me for this.”

→ After

“I build teams the way I used to build systems.”

Capable EMs outgrow the instinct to step in. The next altitude is designing a team that doesn't wait for you.

Pattern 02

“I'm in every escalation, every outage, every hard call. I keep telling myself I'll delegate next sprint. I never do.”

→ After

“I build systems that outlast my calendar.”

You're not saving the team. You're the bottleneck the team is too polite to name.

Pattern 03

“I've been meaning to give this feedback for weeks. Every time I start the sentence in my head, I hear how it sounds, and I stop.”

→ After

“My team deserves my honesty, not my comfort.”

The feedback you're sitting on has a cost. Your silence isn't protecting them. It's deciding for them.

Pattern 04

“My boss needs this by Friday. I don't have time to explain the why to the team, I just need them to execute.”

→ After

“I translate pressure down and push context up.”

Your team doesn't need a messenger. Your leadership doesn't need "yes" people. Be the manager they both trust.

Pattern 05

“I had a real vision for how this team could work. Somewhere along the way I stopped fighting for it. Now I just sit in meetings and feel powerless.”

→ After

“I stopped waiting for permission to lead.”

You didn't lose the vision. You just stopped building the conditions for it. That part is learnable.

The 3 Guarantees · One Frame

Three pulls. One job.

You learn to hold them in tension.

Drag the dot. Lean toward any one and the trade-off you're making appears. Release to see what you'd build instead.

feature factory

drag the dot — release to re-center

All three holding — the job, done.

    Each guarantee, in depth
    Guarantee 01

    Predictable Delivery

    Your team ships. Stakeholders trust your word. Surprises become rare - because clarity removes chaos from the pipeline, not because you push the team harder.

    Vision · Goals · Roadmap · Prioritization · Resourcing · Execution · Quality
    Guarantee 02

    Talent Multiplication

    Engineers grow visibly better under your leadership. High performers actively want in. You stop hiring your way out of people problems - you grow your way out.

    Hiring · Growth · Performance · Delegation · Engagement · Conflict
    Guarantee 03

    System Health

    Technical debt is managed. Processes scale. Team dynamics are healthy. Some chaos is inherited - but it's yours to manage. Make the invisible visible.

    Culture · Dysfunction · Collaboration · Context · Process · Decisions · Change
    The program

    Real work, on your real team, 1:1 with a coach who's done it.

    Self-paced videos and workbooks build the mental model. A weekly 60-minute live session does the work videos can't. By Week 3, your coach knows your team well enough to keep you honest long after the program ends.

    The program at a glance
    Format1:1 with Chirantan
    Duration6 weeks
    SessionsWeekly 60-min live + self-paced video & workbook
    Tuition€1,500 per engagement
    StartRolling, by application
    1. Orientation

      The Threshold

      The Standard. A bar you set, together. A discovery call, then a shared commitment spoken aloud - the agreement that binds you and your coach.

    2. Week 1

      The Job Nobody Described

      The Map. Three guarantees, in plain sight. Nobody told you you were signing them - you'll spot them everywhere by Monday.

    3. Week 2

      Follow the Delivery Trail

      Predictable Delivery. Clarity over effort. Why smart teams still miss dates - and how to stop being the last line of defence.

    4. Week 3

      Follow the People Trail

      Talent Multiplication. Grow your way out. The invisible ceiling on every team - and the conversation that breaks it.

    5. Week 4

      Follow the Structural Trail

      System Health. Own what's already running you. The invisible system you've been managing around - finally visible, finally yours to design.

    6. Week 5

      Turn the Lens on Yourself

      The Inner Work. The tensions you've been hiding. The trade-offs that quietly shape every call you make - turned into deliberate choices.

    7. Week 6

      The Verdict

      Your Frame. Distilled, declared, defensible. Your leadership foundations, named at last - clear, consistent throughout your career.

    What you walk out with

    Three artifacts you'll carry to every job after this one.

    The frameworks are evidence. The workbook is the work. What you leave with is something more durable - three capabilities, built on your real material, that travel with you across every team you ever lead.

    01
    Reading your team
    Clarity
    02
    Doing the hard right thing
    Conviction
    03
    Growing on purpose
    Practice
    Your coach
    Chirantan Rajhans

    Chirantan Rajhans

    Engineering Leader · 18 years in tech

    I've run engineering teams across Contentful, Taxfix and Klara - through scale changes, reorgs, founding moments, and the stretches where delivery and talent and systems all compete for the same afternoon.

    I've learned the job the way most of us learn it: late, alone, and on people who deserved better. This program is the map I wish someone had drawn for me - the one that turns the job from something you hold together by hand into something you can actually see, name and design.

    I coach it the way I wish I'd been coached: small room, real work, honest conversation. No lectures.

    Who this is for

    A small room, curated on purpose.

    Engagements are limited to a handful at a time, filled by short application. The bar is low for credentials and high for honesty - the work only produces its outcomes for managers willing to act on what the program reveals about themselves.

    This is for you if

    • You've been an EM for a year or more and want the next version of yourself to be obvious
    • You manage 3–15 engineers and are ready to work on your actual team, not a case study
    • You take feedback well and give it honestly
    • You want judgement, not templates
    • You can commit to a 60-minute live session plus deep self-paced work, for 6 weeks

    This isn't for you if

    • You want a certificate to put on LinkedIn
    • You want a network more than a reframe
    • You want tactical checklists without the thinking
    • You can't bring real work from your real team
    • You aren't willing to act on what the program reveals about you
    Apply for a 1:1 engagement

    The next altitude. Tell me what you're building toward.

    No pitch calls, no funnel. You send a short application. If it looks like a fit, I reply with a 20-minute conversation to make sure the program earns its place in your schedule.

    If it doesn't fit - I'll say that too, and usually point you at something better.

    Investment
    €1,500 for the full engagement
    Weekly 1:1 coaching with Chirantan. A fieldbook you apply to your real team. Every session recorded, yours to keep.
    Often expensed through learning & development budgets. I'll provide an invoice and a short fit letter for your manager on request.
    "Say the real thing. It's the only material that works."
    I read every application. Usually reply within 48 hours.

    Submitted.

    I'll reach out within the next 48 hours. If urgent — drop an email to contact@chirantanrajhans.com.

    Worth asking

    Before you apply.

    Who is this actually for?+

    On paper: Engineering Managers managing teams of 3–15 engineers. The baseline is typically 1–5 years in the role, but frankly, tenure is a trap. I've seen decade-deep veteran EMs still white-knuckling their way through sprints because they never consciously unlearned their IC habits.

    In reality: It's for the manager who is currently functioning as their team's most expensive piece of duct tape.

    You were promoted because you were an exceptional engineer who reliably delivered. But the brute-force execution that made you a great IC is exactly what's trapping you as a manager. You've become the ultimate safety net - catching dropped balls, filtering the noise, and shielding your team from organizational chaos, entirely at the cost of your own capacity.

    This program is for the manager - whether in year one or year ten - who has held things together through sheer force of will, but realizes surviving isn't scaling. It's for the leader ready to stop playing firefighter, step out of the micro-details, and build the macro-intuition required to actually compound their impact.

    (If you're a Director or VP looking to enroll your managers to build this capability across your org, let's have a separate conversation.)

    What do I actually leave with?+

    Let's go off-script. If you've read this far, you aren't looking for another list of frameworks or PDF templates. You're looking for proof that the bleeding can actually stop.

    Right now, you are likely paying for your team's delivery with your own hidden overtime. You might be logged off, but your brain is still untangling tomorrow's chaotic release or bracing for the next fire.

    What you actually leave this program with is operational control - and the career leverage that comes with it. The team diagnostics, the tension statements, and the leadership philosophy are just the mechanics.

    The real return on your investment is the shift from a reactive bottleneck to a systemic leader. When your team no longer relies on you to manually hold everything together, you stop just surviving your current role and build the capacity for your next career leap. You leave with the intuition to trust the machine you've built, the clarity to stop doing your team's job for them, and the leverage to finally own your time and your trajectory.

    Is this a course or a coaching program?+

    Both, deliberately. A static course alone won't change ingrained habits, and coaching without a solid foundation often devolves into just venting about the week's fires.

    The Self-Paced Content: This provides the new lenses and tools you need to view your team's dynamics from a different altitude. It gives you the foundational concepts to shift your perspective from micro-execution to macro-intuition.

    The Live Sessions: This is where the actual unlearning happens. The live environment does the work that asynchronous content simply can't: directly naming the real, messy tensions you're sitting on right now.

    You aren't doing this in a vacuum. You'll be dissecting these realities with a coach who has lived them, while you keep operating inside your real team. We use the self-paced tools to shift your perspective, and the live coaching to actually apply it to your current reality.

    How much time does it take?+

    I know the irony: you're looking at this program to get your time back, but you have to find the time to take it first. If your calendar is already stretched thin, adding a structured 1:1 program to your plate probably sounds daunting.

    Here are the mechanics: One 60-minute live session a week. That is your only fixed calendar block. The rest is self-paced video and workbook content designed to flex around your existing commitments.

    Mind you, this isn't a second job. The reflection and the actual work happen inside your team, not on top of it. You aren't stepping away from your desk to study management in a vacuum. Instead, you are applying new lenses to view your daily context from a different altitude, using practical tools to shift how you operate in real-time.

    You are investing a couple of hours a week to build the machine that buys your time back permanently.

    My team is dealing with a crisis right now. Should I wait until things calm down?+

    If you wait for the chaos to clear, you will never take this program. Applying new leadership lenses to hypothetical, calm scenarios is practically useless. This program is designed to use your current crisis as the curriculum. You bring your actual, messy team tensions into the room, and we use the tools to dissect them in real-time. Don't wait for the fire to burn out; learn how to build the firebreak now.

    What happens if I miss a live session?+

    The live sessions are where the deepest unlearning happens, so attendance is expected. However, reality happens - production goes down, escalations occur. Every session is recorded so you can revisit any moment that lands. If you know in advance you will miss more than one session, it is best to hold off and apply when your calendar is clearer.

    Why is it by application?+

    Because, frankly, not everyone is ready for this.

    It is easy to vent about being overwhelmed. It is entirely different to do the uncomfortable work of unlearning the brute-force habits that got you promoted in the first place. Building macro-intuition means dropping the ego of being your team's "hero", stepping out of the micro-details, and letting a few small fires burn so you can finally build the machine that puts them out permanently. If a room is filled with managers just looking for a quick template to bandage a broken sprint, nobody makes the leap.

    The short application isn't a gate for your technical pedigree; it's a gut-check. It's there to make sure that when you sit down for our first session, you aren't just looking for sympathy for your calendar. You are ready to let go of the duct tape and step up.

    Why not just talk to a manager friend, or read a book?+

    Friends sympathize. Books generalize. Neither will sit with you on a Tuesday afternoon, look at your actual team, and tell you what they see.

    Friends share your blind spots. Books were written for a manager who isn't you. A 1:1 coach who has done this work spends an hour a week in the room with your real situation, your release, your skip-level, the engineer you can't quite read. You leave with operating moves, not summaries.

    How does tuition work?+

    Tuition is €1,500 for the first 10 engagements of 2026, then €3,000. The program runs over 6 weeks. Most participants expense this through their company's L&D budget. I provide the invoice and a short justification letter for your manager. If budget is a hard blocker, say so in your application and we'll talk.

    I have more questions. How can I contact you?+

    "Become the manager leadership bets on."

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